Josh: The Podcast, Episode 12: Hello, Birmingham. Plus: Kids shooting kids (again)

I spent a couple of quick days in Birmingham over the past week, and I came back to a 10-year-old accidentally shooting his 8-year-old cousin. You know how I feel about this, right? And then a 5-year-old in New Jersey shot a 4-year-old with his mom's gun. Sigh.

Links to stuff I talk about:
10-year-old shoots 8-year-old, parents say, "They know better"
5-year-old boy playing with mom's gun shoots, kills 4-year-old brother
Trim Tab Brewing Co.
Urban Standard
Octane
Holler & Dash
Saw's
Forsyth Farmers Market
Prankster gets USA Today to print Cormac McCarthy death
Tamir Rice shooting in Cleveland
Cleveland suspends 63 officers in chase that ended in deaths of two unarmed people (nope, 63 is not a typo)

Bonus material for patrons is about doing some research and having good discussions.

In the bonus material for Episode 10, I asked Lewis Howes' question about three truths you know. Listener sent his three. I think they're worth sharing.

• When in doubt or despair there is always a way to fight or push through — never give up.
• There is no magic pill — there may be many different roads but every journey will require hustle and hard work.
• Don't get stuck on money is everything. Yes you need to support yourself and your family and determine where you are comfortable but more importantly, you should do something you love every day. As unrealistic as it sometimes sounds, it can be done. Find joy in your daily life.

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The ongoing fear of success

I was pretty smart four years ago when I asked, "how do you plan for success?"

I'm dumber now, I guess, because I just read that piece and learned something from it.

Maybe I'm not dumber. Maybe I just needed a reminder. Clearly I haven't spent the four years learning the entire lesson.

I was reminded of problem of fearing success when Joey Diaz had Matt Baker on his podcast last week.

Diaz, the actor and comedian, and Baker, a second-degree black belt in Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, are on the mic with producer Lee Syatt. They're talking about Diaz getting into comedy, and about his fear of getting onstage.

Scroll ahead to 34:19 if you want to hear this exchange; go before that if you want context.

Syatt: Were you worried you were going to bomb? Is that what you were most worried about? Or were you worried that you were going to do well?

Diaz: I was worried I was going to find the answer to all my problems.

"I was worried I was going to find the answer to all my problems."

What are you not doing because you're worried it will eliminate your ability to complain about anything?

Josh: The Podcast, Episode 11: Halfway to

A shorter podcast than usual today, as I'm heading out of town. Subject matter is a little lighter, too. I hope you'll enjoy this respite.

Links to stuff I talk about:
2016 running goal: Halfway home
Allow your plan to change
• I reserve the right to change. Listen to the JKWD episode, and read a post it inspired about the Special Libraries Association.

Bonus material for patrons is about being amazing at it while it's yours.

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Running 2016: Halfway home

A 2-fer on Saturday took me halfway to my 2016 running goal. 500 miles down, 500 miles to go.

The calendar said I was 13 days ahead of schedule — we were 170 days into the year with 196 left. Yeah, I know. I picked a leap year. If I reach my goal on Dec. 31, we'll put an asterisk on it.

It's not a given, obviously, that I'll get there. We hit triple digits on Friday for the first time, and it's only June. That means we've got probably another 10-12 weeks of weather that will stay too hot for me to run more than 18-20 miles a week without really feeling it. I still need to put an injury buffer in, just in case. I need to figure in time for a vacation (even though I'll probably get a couple of runs in during it).

Me on Runkeeper »

But I feel good, generally. I started running only in the past few years, and distances only in the past 13 months. It's very much a meditation for me now. It used to take me 75-80 minutes to get into a meditative rhythm. Now I can slide in after a few minutes. It's stress relief, it's escape, and it gives me a good time to just think.

Anyway, here's an old favorite. Enjoy.

Josh: The Podcast, Episode 10: Get on team people, and maybe pontificate less

Links to stuff I talk about:
Lewis Howes
Orlando nightclub shooting | Reactions
1 Million Cups
Melissa Gratias
Pulse nightclub's Facebook page
Alligator kills 2-year-old at Disney

Bonus material for patrons is about...well, it's something important to your life, so you'll want to listen.

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Gentrifying religion: Bringing the high thinkers together


Start this around 27 minutes.

Alex and Allyson Grey visited Joe Rogan last month.

The Greys are the founders of the Church of Sacred Mirrors, a church (yes, with IRS certification and everything) centered around sacred art and that sort of thing.

They have a discussion with Rogan starting around 27 minutes into the podcast (you can just start there on the video above) about what is essentially getting the riffraff out of religion.

Rogan argues that "most people" think religion is outdated, based on myths and incorporating traditions that are highly outmoded. Objectively, he's incorrect — some 84 percent of the world's population identifies as being affiliated with a religion.

The Greys assert that religion is still important. It doesn't matter what you describe as God, but it's humans that give some religions a bad name. I'll just mention Catholic Church sex scandal and Islamic terrorism and let you deal with whatever happens in your brain.

Artists move into poor, often crime-ridden neighborhoods. They do this because, especially as artists attempting to get established, these are the places they can afford to live. Being full of creativity but lacking in some of the things they need, the artists open cafes where they can discuss art, galleries where they can show art, markets where they can buy food and somewhere to go for eggs and toast after a long evening at the easel.

As these places open, people with more means move in to enjoy the new community, and as time goes on, the artists are sometimes forced out because the neighborhood has become unaffordable, and they move to new communities and the cycle begins somewhere else.

This process is called gentrification, and often carries a pejorative connotation. But maybe organized faith can use some spiritual gentrification. It's worth a discussion, I think.

Josh: The Podcast, Episode 9: Setting the agenda, plus a new podcast

Links to stuff I talk about:
1 Million Cups
United Sustainable Tomorrow and GreenMap
PermitZone
Trump co-chair tells CNN to stop using the term "racist"
Josh & Kelvin World Domination Podcast (JKWD)
End of primary season (mostly)
Hillary Clinton's speaking fees | charitable donations
Gary Johnson, Libertarian candidate for president
Jill Stein, Green candidate for president

Bonus material for patrons is about life unscripted, but outlined.

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The end of the early season, mercifully; can we be nice to each other again?

Today marks the final big day of primary season. We still have the Washington, DC, primary coming up next week, but with primaries in New Jersey, California, and several smaller states today, we're getting ready to move into conventions.

It's been a month since Donald Trump became the only candidate running on the Republican side. He's had a contentious ride, and GOP leadership isn't going to make it any easier on him heading into the convention; presumably into the election.

Hillary Clinton will come out the Democratic nominee. The Dems' super-delegate system was put in place to ensure that party brass got to weigh in to the tune of about 30%. And why not? The US was chartered as a republic, not as a democracy. And Bernie Sanders isn't really a Democrat — he lost that party's Senatorial primary in Vermont and serves his constituents as an independent. I can only assume he's chosen to run as a Democrat because it gives him a bigger platform.

That's also why we have the electoral college — in case the voters went weird, there would be some people with some political insider status who could make sure the person elected is suitable to serve.

Fun fact: Members of the electoral college aren't bound. We want to think they are, but what happens is each party picks a slate of electors, and the party that wins the popular vote in a state has its electors cast their electoral votes. If, in November, Massachusetts votes for Clinton, the Democratic Party's slate of 11 electoral college members will cast their ballots. Typically, we assume they'd vote for Clinton and typically they would. But if someone decides he's a Martin O'Malley fan, Clinton would get 10 electoral votes in Massachusetts and O'Malley would get one.

I don't know if it's that Facebook and Twitter have become more popular since 2012; they certainly have expanded their reach since 2008. I don't remember us being this bad to each other. There are people on Facebook I haven't "unfriended," but their use of insult as a debate tactic is so bad that I'll never see their posts about anything awesome they do in the future; they're gone from my timeline and it's too exhausting to weed through and put them back in.

This race has certainly brought out the worst in a lot of people. At some point in the not-too-distant future, I think we're going to need something in the way of more radical change. At the rate it's going, the middle class will be a vast minority by the 2024 election. Inasmuch as "40 acres and a mule" was an actual dream for several days (look it up), it was supposed to represent a status to which we could all rise.

Among Trump's supporters are dangerous people who make death threats. Some of Sanders' supporters have been violent at times. We forget that, at the beginning, when there were 16 Republican candidates and three Democratic candidates, a lot of people couldn't decide which way to register so that they'd vote for Sanders or Trump — despite Sanders' decades in national politics, they were the "outsider" candidates on either side. Outsider enough that if Sanders runs on a third-party ticket, he might take enough votes from both Trump and Clinton that no one gets the necessary majority of electoral votes.

If we don't stop treating politics like sports in the U.S. — hating the other team for the jersey they wear — we're headed down a long, dark road.

More: The presidential race and the problem with politics in the US »

Josh: The Podcast, Episode 8: Books, the media do their job and how you can help the show

Links to stuff I talk about:
1 Million Cups
TipToepia
The Scout Guide Savannah
Trump blasts media for questioning where fundraiser money went
I'm Dreaming of a Black Christmas by Lewis Black
Georgia Download Destination
Astonishing Legends podcast
Illusions: The Adventures of a Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach

Bonus material for patrons is about stairs, and the type of person you are.

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