Sometimes I listen to a podcast with the expectation that it’s going to be really fun, and instead of laughing a lot, I find myself saying, oh no, now I need to listen to this again with pen and paper nearby.
Comedian Robert Kelly was on Bertcast — the podcast of comic and Travel Channel personality Bert Kreischer — and it really turned into something you need to hear.
Here are my takeaways from the episode:
• Help your friends out, but also hold them accountable
• Know the things you want and need to be your best — and demand them
• Learn how to cut off the fat
• Learn how to say no
• Don’t say anything you can’t take back (Kelly is sometimes on Comedy Central’s “Roast Battle,” a show on which the point is to make fun of other comics; the lesson here is some things are off-limits — know how you can tease people, but know what’s too far)
• Spontaneity isn’t always good
• Don’t put in the work if the payoff isn’t there
• Hard work is hard
• We are in a period of excellence and variety
• Don’t let emotion get the better of you
• What is your peak? Are you willing to keep going on the other side of it?
• Sometimes it’s worth the risk
• It’s worth doing exactly what you want, but do it for you, and do it your way
• You don’t know where it’s going, but it’s definitely not going anywhere if you don’t do it to your expectations
• Not everybody is going to be a rock star
• Have measured expectations
• Be realistic about where you are
• Try to be better
• Do what you do; you ever where it’s going to get you
• Don’t let expectations weigh you down
• In a saturated market, how do you stand out?
• You’re worth what you’re worth. If you get $X and someone’s only offering $y, you can still love them honestly but say no
• Don’t jump in a big pond just to be a small fish. Kelly’s actual quote: “Why do I want to be the pepper in your chop suet? People want chop suet; they don’t care what’s in it.”
• It’s up to you if you stay or go – not the audience, not your mother, not anyone else
• Bring people with you