"Just Do It," says Nike. Just do it. Just. Fucking. Do. It. It's really all you have to do. It doesn't matter what it is, just get busy living it.
For some people, the most difficult thing they do all day is get out of bed. For some, it's because they don't know what the day will bring. Not getting out of bed allows them to avoid uncertainty. For others, it's because they do know what the day will bring. They don't want to face another 8 or 10 or 12 or 24 hours of whatever-it-is.
Just about all of them, however, do put their feet on the floor, get some shoes on their feet and get out the door. Why? It doesn't matter. They made the choice to just do it.
So, what motivates us to just do it? You'd be surprised, it seems. Dan Pink, in the above video, talks about the science of motivation. Extrinsic rewards (think money and free stuff) don't help. In fact, they hinder most processes.
Pink talks about "the candle problem." I'll spoil it for you.
You are placed at a table surrounded by walls. You are given a box of thumbtacks, a candle and a book of matches. You are assigned the task of attaching the candle to the wall in such a way that no wax drips on the table.
One group is assigned the task with no reward promised. Another group is assigned the task and told that if they finish among the first 20% of people, they'll get $5.
Invariably, the group promised $5 finishes over three minutes slower than everyone else.
The solution to the problem, and it gets more obvious when you see pictures of the setup, is to dump the thumbtacks out of the box, tack the box to the wall, and put the candle in the box, so the wax drips on the box, not the table.
The people promised the money couldn't get the creative part of it; the money made them think to linearly.
Need proof of that linear thinking? When presented with the thumbtacks already out of the box, those with the extrinsic motivation – that is, the money – are able to finish faster, since the solution is right there in front of them.
Let's take it out of the laboratory.
Adonal Foyle (Central New York link: Colgate grad!) played NBA basketball for a while. He made good money (multi-year, multi-million dollar contracts). But his career was short-lived because he had so much trouble maintaining a healthy weight. He even to try to control it.
But he couldn't. He just didn't have the intrinsic motivation to get it done. He didn't just do it.
At some point, you have to make the decision to get up and get back on the horse. You have to.
Let me tell you about Ben. Ben has struggled with his weight for a long time and about six weeks ago, he was watching an episode of "The Biggest Loser" and he said, "OK, I'm going to do something about my weight." Here's the kicker: He got out of bed, went to the gym, and started training.
He still has his struggles. He recently, but recognized that if he just set his mind to it, he could get back on. He had to just do it.
And as long as we're talking exercise, even Richard Simmons can't help you .
The motivation has to come from you. You have to just do it.
Competition, writes Seth Godin, . You only run as fast, ride as far, play as hard as you have to in order to win. You don't live up to your full potential. And speaking of full potential, a recent study showed that if you were lied to and told 2% above your best effort was actually your best effort, you could – that is, if your best mile is a 10-minute mile but you're paced against a timer that's off, you can beat a 9:48; that's a pretty big drop.
So you have to find that motivation from within. Some tools:
• allows you to create a "101 things to do in 1001 days" list, and track it (hat tip to ).
• is an app that works with your cell phone camera to line up before-and-after photos that then overlay so you can watch the shape of your body change as you bulk up or slim down.
It's up to you. "Do or do not, there is no try," Yoda said. So do it. Just. Do. It.
Take the 11 minutes to watch this video. It comes to me from via .
Motivation's a funny thing. I've been blogging on and off for almost 10 years now, and have seen very little money for it. You know why that's OK with me? Because it's fun and challenging. I can write about whatever I want, whenever I want, and on it's helped me meet and connect with some really smart people. That video above explains it all.